Talking bad words symbolizes rudeness, discourteousness, disrespectfulness, impertinence, impoliteness, impudence, incivility, inconsiderateness, inconsideration, insolence, discourtesy, ungraciousness, and a hell lot more. But who taught this? Our school is, the place where more slaves are made, and our parents are, a reflection of our conservative indigenous society and others who advise us a lot. But who taught bad words? Of course our friends, colleagues and school/college mates. Is talking a bad word worth it or a waste of time?
A separate and unrelated study from the University of Rochester (2017) shows that intelligent people tend to swear more. Despite this study, other studies contradict to this which creates a paradox.
We can consider that speaking bad words doesn't give more IQ to him but it's his mindset to do his work efficiently or his ability to think it properly. But usage of bad words or swearing it out makes him feel free, shows his openness, he can be original, his mind gets relaxed, and he may give the fullest of his work. Swearing is the extent of crying where a child cries in an unmanageable situation whereas a man swears when he can't manage the situation.
Swearing can be done only with our close friends, life partners, or going to be. It creates a bond with close ones and separates the distant ones. So we should not use abusive words with unknown people as they may become our permanent enemies too bcos it's like intruding into their private life which everyone feels uncomfortable as they think we take advantage of them. Meanwhile, it creates a strong bond with our friends too.
Being rude is necessary to our professional life as it disciplines us on how to show a wave of anger without affecting others physically. Swearing, in some cases, may lead to fighting but matured guys won't do it. Which trains us to show a wave of anger over an issue in a proper way. Also, a mature guy needs to show anger over a certain subject. Hiding his anger isn't morally correct too. So swear trains him in this area.
A man who speaks abusively has a wide area to explore whereas a man who won't do it will have a stereotyped mind. Former men can mingle with anybody and be exposed to multiple lifestyles as each one will have each kind of lifestyle whereas the latter one will mingle with people with similar ideas which makes him socially isolated and also he cant deliver a frustration properly and won't be stress-free too
Swear makes us mature as it allows us, makes us learn how to show anger, on whom we have to show it, when we have to and how we have to. It makes complete men (complete men have to develop their dark habits in a morally good way) who don't want to fear anything ( "*tha paathukalam" feel) and also makes them attractive, and eligible for leadership skills too!
Abusive words - Toilet seat for frustration, anger, and another negative (which affects our success) thoughts. It is the only way to flush off those shitty thoughts to get relief from ourselves and give a kickstart to our fresh life without/with little guilt feel and other negative mindsets. It boosts us to do our work even to the fullest ourselves even if no one supports us too. It gives us moral support in this so-called filthy world which some youngsters need right now in our country.
After all, anger is too emotional, and dumping it and not allowing it to come out is not a good thing for our minds. We have to taste not only sweet and spicy foods but also bitter foods too. Abusive words are not attractive but it is like a bitter truth that has to be intaken for good digestion of anger and split out (as it's toxic). In Tamil, there is a phrase (ரௌத்திரம் பழகு) which states the same, perform anger for a good cause but this swears to teach us how to do it.
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