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Don Film vs Toxic Parenting - Edward Raghul

Don film has a story in that, the protagonist initially hates his dad due to his character of not understanding his son and also not treating him good, not even supporting him morally too! Then his wife (mom of protagonist) make her son to understand that he did everything for your goodness. But this strategy is called as "love bomb" - fake love, the exact strategy of Toxic Parenting.


1. Self-centered Parents:-
He gives importance to the things more than his son. For example, once the hero takes his dad's cycle for a test drive, he fell down. His dad doesnt give attention to his situation and asks nothing about his injuries rather he sees the condition of cycle.

2. Over expectation:-
Also he tonsure his son's head as he concentrate on his hair style more than his studies. Which unknowingly and subconsciously affect the son's mindset and creates a trauma in him, which cant be erased.

If its a real life story, the guy might faced mental illness too and may show anger on anyone without any proper way to feed his frustation which may lead to any problem and may destroy his character too. It creates a negative impact on his character on others which is biggest threat to him and his future. He has to struggle a lot to get his accountability back. But there is no guarantee that he doesnt get any criticism on him about his past from others.

As he didn't have any support to guide him, he didnt know how to react, what to react with others. He may socially isolated. As humans are social animals, social connection is necessary. If he didnt mingle with guys of his age, he may be outdated too. Its too dangerous to his profession especially. He might not provide a latest version of result or he may not give a thing likable to the client. Also it leads to feel himself as inferior too

The another biggest issue is that he may hesitate to talk with new people. He live alone again with shyness and all stuffs which affect him mentally.

Overall, if Sivakarthikeyan (Don film protagonist character) is real, then he may wandering as a psychotic guy with full of trauma and inferiority complex. But the film glorifies the wrong parenting strategy. It may go wrong as the loop of wrong parenting may continue as they think our parents (who did wrong parenting) are right. Which is unhealthy to our society.


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